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Tears of the soul

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Posted by on July 11, 2009 in family, inspirations


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Oreo returns. Mending afoot.

Oreo came back.  But he wasn’t well.
He moved only very slowly.  His back permanently arched, in a position that shouldn’t have lasted.

Worry. And watch. 

And add on the worry that I should really be treating this as life threatening, I should be panicking…
— because what if it IS!?  LIFE Threatening, that is!

I feel that that is the right direction to lean. If in doubt.
SO off to the Emergency vet I went, I just couldn’t wait 4 more hrs for my vet.

Vet said he was hit by a car, mouthed aggressively by a dog, or had something fall on him. 
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Posted by on June 15, 2008 in family, Mystery, Relationships


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Cat. Gone. Waiting. What to do.

He didn’t eat every morsel last night.
He slept inside without complaint until very late in the morning.
He did not ask for breakfast.
He slipped outside with the dog,
I thought it’d be brief, assumed he would venture not far… and come back in.
If he wasn’t feeling well.

And now

Dear god!
How do you look for a cat
that doesn’t want to be found.
Could he really have gotten that sick? 


Posted by on June 12, 2008 in family, Quandaries


Relations and pics

New family connections!
I recently came across an easy build-your-family-tree site. My mother had expressed a wish to be able to do some genealogy work long ago, long before the ease of the internet. As a way of feeling connected to her and doing a good family-deed (something Very Unlike me, btw!) and beginning to construct the tree “for the family”. Mom’d be proud!

So of course something like this isn’t nearly all that much fun all alone, so as soon as I had the basic of the immediate family I eagerly forwarded an invite to my dad and my brother & sister-in-law. Goody! Now we’ll start getting all of our eyes on this, have something to share, be able to fine-tune it and.. pass along a gift to the next generation! (I’m so damn proud of myself for finding a way of ‘connecting’ with my brother!!)

Then… my sister-in-law voiced a little concern about her new professional need for privacy and that the family-tree website information could be found by her future clients. As soon as she expressed the slightest concern, I researched the site’s privacy policy, wrote to the site’s founder and reported immediately back. I confirmed that only those individual’s who have received an invitation (email) could gain informational access. Coming from a technology background, I was so damn happy to use my tech-semi-saviness to do the due diligence for her!

The assurances turned out to be insufficient. A request to remove her and my brother’s birthdates came. Sadly, I tried to assure, while also removing the data. I hoped the assurance (and the invitation to try to ‘google’ the info to test the security) would allow her to relax and soon, very soon, join in the fun of building family data and sharing a purpose! YAY!! My family! Together! Yesssss!


Now came the next request. I now needed to remove the girls’ identifying information and all the names. I also needed to start calling her by a fully formal name (Like, e.g., no longer “Vicky”, now it was “Victoria”). (Okay, those things were only connected by timing and the same email, but it all hit me really badly!) Now it was time for me to go to work!

After cleaning off the account on the website I’d invited her to, I simply recreated the data under a new account. I informed “Victoria” of this. Then I smugly waited for her to ever write back to me.

All right. Smug isn’t all that satisfying
…when all your doing is waiting. That’s when I decided that I still wanted to make Mom proud. I decided I might as well get kinda serious about this. Maybe I’d have more fun that way, too!

Since then I really have found a more advance genealogy site ( that is fun and pretty easy to use. I reloaded all the info I had – immediate family. I then was able to do researching of historical source data on the site and confirmed a bit more information. It was going to be a dabble here, and a dabble there. Until this morning!

This morning I dug through a box of old pictures I have from my gramma. I came across her sister’s full maiden name in a book. I entered that in the family tree.. and Holy Crap… Suddenly I have a link to FIVE generations of family on the Swedish, mom’s mom’s side!! Now I am really enjoying this search! I just have to be careful not to get too rabid!! Sleeping is still good! 🙂

Oh… And in all this.. I just learned to use my scanner. Now I can store & save all the old family photos, too!

(I sure wish I’d taken better notes when Gramma was telling me who was who!)  THIS is my great gramma!!

My Great! Gramma
I wish someone would teach me why some pics show up small and others resist shrinking!

Ya put your right foot in…

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Posted by on June 9, 2007 in family, Quandaries